Sunday, December 1, 2013

Thanks & Giving



Thanks
This past September during my Peace Corps Mid-Service Conference, my fellow volunteers and I had a chance to read a letter that we had each written to ourselves one year prior at the end of our Pre-Service Training as we were about to head out to our permanent sites.  One line that I had written was to remind myself to “give thanks to everyone and everything that has kept you here.”  Over this past Thanksgiving weekend, this little reminder continued to run through my head as I reflected on the things that I am thankful for.

I am eternally grateful for my amazing network of family and friends back home.  I feel so blessed to have parents and a sister and brother who love me and support me through every crazy moment of life here in Ethiopia.  I appreciate that they care enough to ask questions and take an interest in my life and work.  And I am super-thankful to have two parents who are just crazy enough to want to come to Ethiopia! (See you in 20 days, Mom & Dad!!) I am also grateful for aunts and uncles and cousins and friends who email me, write letters, send cards and care packages.  I cannot overstate just how much that all means to me.  Peace Corps service is challenging, and life in Ethiopia can be difficult.  It is easy to feel alone and depressed, so something as little as getting a card in the mail from a loved one or a simple Skype call can really brighten my day.  So I’d like to give a huge thank you to everyone who has ever written me a letter, sent a card, answered my phone call, emailed me, or sent a care package.  Your thoughtfulness has made a difference in my life, and you have made my time in Ethiopia just a little bit easier!

Celebrating Thanksgiving with friends.
It is a rare thing to walk into a room full of 70 strangers and instantly feel a connection to those people, but that’s what happened to me in June 2012.  Those 70 strangers were my fellow Peace Corps Volunteers, and the connection I felt was that clearly we all had a couple screws loose because we had all agreed to move to Ethiopia for the next 27 months.  70 of us started this journey, and 60 of us are still here a year and a half later.  I feel so grateful for the amazing friends that I have made among my fellow volunteers.  I know that I can call them up crying when I’ve had a bad day, or excited when a project has been successful, or frustrated when something hasn’t gone according to plan.  I know that they will instantly understand me because they have had the same experiences.  We can cry together, laugh together, share horror stories and gossip, and give advice, all without judgment.  I know that these friends will be friends for life, and I can’t wait to hang out in America when we’ve all showered and our clothes aren’t dirty and falling apart at the seams.

Grade 8 English Club students
I am thankful for the students at my school who attend my clubs and programs.  I really love these kids.  It has been an incredible experience to watch them learn, and to be a part of their lives.  I don’t know how I would manage in Ethiopia if my job was only to work with adults.  Having the kids at my school be excited to see me and interested to learn feels validating, and makes me believe that maybe I am having some small impact here, at least for these kids.  I am also thankful for the teachers at my school who care about me.  There are a handful of teachers who I know support my work in the school and who I can go to for help when I need it. 

One teacher at my school said to me a few weeks ago, “I think that you are very brave.”  “No,” I told him “I am not brave. Most of the time I am afraid, but I am alone and I have to take care of myself.”  Thinking about it now, I realize that in a way, yes, I am alone here, and I have been afraid plenty of times, and I’ve had to figure out a lot of things on my own.  But the truth is I’m not really alone and there are kind and generous people here who have helped me and taken care of me.  I know that God will never give me more than I can handle, and I guess I’ve learned that I can handle a lot.  It’s easy to lose sight of the good things I’ve experienced here, the things that keep me here.  This Thanksgiving I am truly thankful to everyone and everything that has kept me here.

Giving
My mini-library, stocked with donated books
‘Tis the season for giving.  This is just a little reminder for anyone who would like to contribute to my book project.  I am collecting donated books to improve the library at my school.  If enough books are donated, I am also hoping to start a library at a new school here in Ambo.  English fluency is extremely important for students in Ethiopia because starting in grade 9 through university level, all subjects are taught in English.  That means that students cannot learn science or math or any other subject unless they have a solid foundation in English.  Very few homes in Ethiopia contain any books at all.  Students in primary school have very few resources to improve their English skills.  I believe that reading is essential for these kids.  I let the students in my English clubs borrow one book at a time, and there is usually a line for books.  They absolutely love reading these books!

If you would like to contribute to the improvement of 2 school libraries here in Ambo, you can purchase used books from the website betterworldbooks.com   You can also reference my blog post from April 3, 2013 for instructions.  I’m looking for any books beginning with children’s picture books through simple chapter books, up to about a 4th or 5th grade reading level would be best.  Many thanks to those who have already sent books, and it’s not too late for anyone who would like to participate in this worthwhile project.  Books from this particular website are inexpensive, in good condition, and ship for free.  So far, all the books have arrived quickly and without any problems.  Feel free to email me if you have any questions.  Thanks in advance!