I have now been living on my own in Ambo for 6 weeks. I have spent most of the past 6 weeks being
extremely bored. I have not been able to
do any work yet because although school was scheduled to start over 2 weeks
ago, classes are not yet in session. My
counterpart, who has been assigned to help me get work done, meet town and
school officials, and basically support me and the Peace Corps mission is full
of promises, but has proved to be unreliable thus far. The first couple of weeks in Ambo, it was actually
a relief to have nothing to do. It was
really nice to relax and catch up on some sleep after a rigorous 2 ½ months of
training. It was good to have some time
to wander around town, find out where to go to buy the things I need. After about 2 weeks though, I had slept so
much that I had thrown off a normal sleep pattern. I had no reason to get up in the morning,
nowhere to go, and nothing to do, so I would just stay in bed until noon,
sometimes I would fall back to sleep in the evening, then I would be awake
until 3am. I have never before been so
bored. Sure, at times I would have
nothing to do back in the U.S., but then I could watch t.v., go drive
somewhere, call a friend to hang out, something. Here it’s a whole new level of boredom. There’s only so much I can walk around
town. Plus a simple walk through town is
anything but simple. There will be
stares from every person I walk past, children asking for money, people
shouting out at me from across the street, “ferengi, feringi, where are you go?” On one walk to the post office, I had a young
man walk with me (uninvited, of course) and ask me all about how to get a visa
to America (I have no idea, call the Embassy), why I am not married (because I
neither want nor need a husband), do I want a habesha husband (absolutely
not!), could he have my phone number (sorry, my phone is only for work), could
I give him an English book (nope), where do I live (over there, pointing to
everywhere and nowhere), could he come
to my house (not a chance in Hell, kid).
I finally ditched him once I arrived at the post office only to run into
him again later that day, and have him ask again for my phone number and if he
could come to my house. I’m sure you can
see how this could become quite annoying.
One thing I have done to combat my boredom is to enact a
strict “no multi-tasking” rule. I
absolutely will not allow myself to do two things at once. If I am cooking dinner, I will sit and watch
water until it boils, rather than doing something else in the meantime. Then, I will do whatever else I have to do
later in order to stretch out my time. I
have also become an old lady, and I enjoy doing crosswords and other puzzles. I have read a lot of books and written a lot
of letters. I have watched all the
movies that I have, some multiple times, and you know, The Lucky One just isn’t good enough to watch over and over, but
I’ve now seen it 3 times.
Many Peace Corps volunteers have a site mate- a fellow
volunteer assigned to the same town. At
first, I was glad to not have a site mate because I wanted to discover things
on my own, and make my own way here. I
know that if I had someone, I would depend on that person to show me the
ropes. I am really glad that I have done
a lot of things by myself. It has not
been easy, but I have managed. That
being said, there will be a health volunteer coming to Ambo in a couple
months. The new group of trainees has
not even arrived in Ethiopia yet, and I have already made this person my new
best friend and planned all sorts of things we can do together! Haha
Hopefully he or she will be cool and not think I’m too nuts!
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Carrying torches to light the Meskal bonfire |
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Bonfire, but nobody brought marshmallows! What's wrong with these people?! haha |
In other news from Ethiopia, this week, we celebrated the
holiday Meskal.
Meskal is celebrated by
the Orthodox Church and commemorates the discovery of Christ’s cross.
Part history and part legend, the story says
that Empress Helena sought to find the cross upon which Jesus died.
In order to find where the cross was buried,
she lit a fire and followed the direction of the smoke.
The smoke led her to a site and after
digging, 3 crosses were discovered, one of them said to be the True Cross of
Christ.
Part of this cross is located at
a church here in Ethiopia.
On the Eve of
Meskal, neighbors come together to light bonfires, some with crosses fashioned
at the top.
During this time yellow
daisies are in bloom everywhere, these Meskal daisies are used to decorate the
bonfires and also in homes.
It was
really interesting to observe this celebration, and to see friends and
neighbors come together.
As at home, Labor
Day is the unofficial end of summer, Meskal is the unofficial end of the rainy
season.
I am very happy about that!
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Another Meskal tradition- bands of men go around chanting/singing/praying (who knows?!) and collecting money | . |
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Before furniture- living like a bag lady! |
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Yay! Clean and organized. Now I'm just waiting for a couch. |
I am also happy to report that my furniture was finished
this week.
About a month ago, I ordered
a coffee table, chest of drawers, and kitchen piece from a local
carpenter.
Finally, with the help of my
landlord and his truck-owning friend, we picked up the furniture on Wednesday
afternoon.
I feel so much more relaxed
and settled now that I have finally unpacked after almost 4 months!
It is a great feeling to have a clean and
organized home.
I didn’t have enough
money to order all my furniture at once, so this week I ordered a couch which
should be ready in another month.
I look
forward to being completely settled into my house soon.